I live in Kansas City and I haven't had any problems dating but the quality is lacking. I have a friend that is moving to Austin, TX and I was recently in Colorado Springs, CO maybe head in that direction.

"I myself lived in Austin TX." as I lived there, it seemed to have every such a variety and abundance of different cultures. (31 flavors). THATS BIG CITY LIFE.

thoughtful insight how do people meet others when they are alone, or walking their dog?

Krayshana, I'm here waiting for you

I don't care where you live, if you're between 18-24 and you have a problem finding dates, you have some serious social issues that you better deal with ASAP. Dating at that age, especially in large urban areas like New York, LA, or Chicago, is like shooting fish in a barrel for both men and women unless you're a social retard. Now if you're over 40 and still single in these types of areas, you can feel as if life has passed you by because your options are extremely limited. And forget about the nightlife because NO ONE with any dignity wants to be the old fart in the club, trying to relive memories from years gone by, chasing kids half your age whether you're a man or a woman. Being single in todays society is a drag, but if you're under 24 and you can't find a date with all of the options you have available to you, maybe you should look in the mirror and check yourself before you complain about what's out there.

I was really dissapointed that 'jewrely' and 'flowers' bought were criteria for great dating. Since when does someone have to buy you something for you to enjoy a date? I think pit is an awesome place for dating, all statistics aside, because it has an amazing assortment of coffee shops and enough music halls to see a concert every week. Where I live, a concert every quarter or more is lucky. -_-

All of KC sucks Wichita not much better. I think all of Kansas and Missouri is difficult.

I'm moving to Austin

Yes, KC is incredibly tough for single girls. Especially when your friends are all married and you aren't hitting the bars for guys.

Need to add Daytona beach to the worst list single man not having much luck here.